A cobble by itself is just a small stone, but when many of them lay together they create a path . My life is made up of many discrete parts. I have to find ways to fit them all into place so that I can continue to journey where I desire to go. This blog records some of the cobbles that create my path.

The quiet of Christmas Evening

I was going to write a post called “The Art of Christmas Day” in which I detailed all the planning, pacing, and managing that Howard and I do to make sure that Christmas Day runs smoothly. I even wrote out all the notes, complete with the psychology behind our choices. I may write that post [...]

On Christmas Eve

Twas the night before Christmas and all through the house resounded the thumping of young children bouncing in bed, winding themselves up into a frenzy of excitement instead of calming down to go to sleep. Exhortations to lay still produce about 10 seconds of silence. It is hard to be six years old and fall [...]

Winter Break is Nigh

On one hand, I am glad I have two more days to get work and writing done before the kids are home all day. On the other hand, I really don’t want to get up early tomorrow. I want to make the kids get up early even less than I want to get up early [...]

Christmas Status Update

One week to go. (The kids make sure I am appraised of the count down daily. As if I might forget.) I ran out today to buy the last Christmas gift. (The remainder are things I must bake.) I have already had my bout with Christmas over-whelmedness. (Yes I made that word up.) I did [...]

Holiday Shipping, Business, and Family

Yesterday was the US postal service’s busiest shipping day of the year. We here at Chez Tayler have been doing our part to add to the load. I’ve been shipping out 5-15 packages per day for the last week or so. This is not a surprise to us. In fact we’ve kind of been counting [...]

I feel like the mouse in that picture book

The thought process goes like this: Hmmm. I think I want some fudge. I shall make fudge. *cook stir pour wait* Yay! I have fudge! *Nom nom nom* I have to stop eating this fudge. Quick! Give away all the fudge. Whew. Now my pants will continue to fit. Hmmm. I think I want fudge.

Discussing Christmas Gifts

The actual words were a bit different, but this was the gist of the conversation. Howard: I’m going to need a list from you of things you want for Christmas. Me: I’ll put together a list of suggestions for you to work from. Howard: I don’t want ‘suggestions’ I want ISBN numbers and specific instructions. [...]

Loose thoughts about today

This afternoon was calm. Homework was accomplished without battles, in part because the two kids who have been fighting me both decided to get most of it done while still at school. It makes me hopeful that we’re nearing the end of the swirling emotional chaos that I’ve been swimming in since school started. On [...]

Only the Herdmans were missing

At our church Christmas party the children were taken in groups to participate in a little nativity play. The casting was very simple. To one side of the room was a bin full of multiple costumes for each part. Kids declared which part they wanted to play and the costumes were distributed. Then the costumed [...]